Relationships give us a sense of belonging. The right ones bolster you and encourage you to grow as a person. The wrong ones leave you depleted emotionally. All relationships have their ups and downs. However, if you have a relationship that always seems down instead of up, it may be time to let it go. It will not be easy, especially if children are involved, but it may be necessary to your overall wellbeing.
How to Know When It’s Time to Let Go
Not all relationships need to call it quits. There are many times when issues plaguing those involved can be rectified. However, if you are in any of these types of situations, it may be time to say goodbye and get on with your life:
* Abuse: At no time should you have to put up with abuse. This is a complex situation when there is a marriage or children, and you may need help or intervention from others like a trained counselor. If your spouse or lover abuses you physically, emotionally, verbally, or in another way, it is time to let them go. If you don’t leave, you subject yourself to more abuse because the abuser will not change their behavior.
* Dishonesty and Disloyalty: Another situation worth leaving is consistent deceit or disloyalty. This isn’t a one-off lie or act of infidelity. It is when someone continually lies to you or is unfaithful and refuses to change. They lack character and integrity. You will soon learn that your respect for them will dwindle the longer they carry on.
* Irresponsibility: At some point, you have to grow up. Adults have responsibilities. Yet some can be irresponsible in handling finances, raising kids, or holding jobs. You are left cleaning up their messes when they fail to handle their duties. Stop letting them undermine the fundamental parts of your life.
* One-Sided: Are you always the one to initiate time together? The other person may be selfish and demanding. When you realize this, you may also learn that you are spending too much energy on a one-sided relationship. You may want to let that go and find someone happy to meet you halfway.
* Demanding Expectations: You may be in a relationship where the other party requires you to dress or behave in a certain way. They may expect you to spend all of your time with them. You may find that you’re compromising your own desires or needs just to keep the peace. Maybe it’s time to do an about-face and remove yourself from their reach instead.
Self-development is more than reading some good books. It’s also about taking action to remove yourself from relationships that stunt your growth.
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